Thursday, July 19, 2012

Our New House

Funny how blogging about my perfect home brought the discovery and purchase of our Tampa home just a few months later. Believe me - there were a lot of dead ends, paperwork and signatures between the blog post and the move-in.

I LOVE the house we bought. I drive up and still can't believe I get to live here. I looked back over my perfect house list to see what I ended up with in the new house. I did pretty well. No carpets, a fireplace, storage, a huge backyard, parking, GREAT neighborhood, trees and a huge well shaded front porch.

We were pretty thick into the house offers/looking business and decided to go out to eat one Friday night with a Bonefish gift card. We furthered our Friday night "shenanigans" by deciding to just drive over to the neighborhood we really liked and look for "For Sale" signs. We found several - even found new areas of the neighborhood we hadn't explored before. We came home and one of the houses was fresh on the market and had an open house on Sunday. We got to the open house the minute it started. I really liked the house and so did Matt. Even as other folks walked through I remember thinking that they needed to leave my house. :-) We put in an offer the next day. It was accepted and we set the closing date.

The seller was going out of the country in early May, so we were able to move our closing date up by 2 weeks. We closed on May 2nd and moved in that weekend since Andrea's wedding was coming up and May was a VERY busy month for us.

We have painted all the rooms our personal color choices, we have hung roman shades and replaced blinds, we have removed the one square of carpet and painted the floor, we have painted the door and the windows. I am IN LOVE with this cute little house. It's smaller than what we orignially thought we wanted, but there is room to expand and plenty of room for kiddos someday.

We met with an adoption agency last fall - they talked about the home-study that would be done before you could adopt. Matt decided that he wanted his home-study to be in an actual home he owned - not a rental. So we started our search. I am happy to say that whenever we have that home-study - our home will not disappoint. :-)



Come visit us in Tampa anytime!!

(these photos are old - I will do a before and after post on the house as soon as I get new photos taken!!)


Thursday, June 7, 2012

Where have you been?

So...I have gotten behind again.

But I have a good excuse! Really!

Ever bought a house, pack, move and helped plan/organize/decorate a wedding all in the span of 3 weeks?

I have, now.

I don't recommend it.

Although the month of May DID fly by.....

I will post details and photos soon.


Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Dream House

The Mr. and I have been house shopping for about 6 months now. We’ve had offers in on 4 different houses, but all fell through for different reasons. I admit I am getting so tired of looking at real estate websites and house advertisements. But looking at them has helped me get a good idea of what I would do in my dream home.
  • Island in kitchen with seating – The kitchen is such a gathering place. A big island with plenty of seating and lots of space for food serving and preparation is a must for me. Bonus points if the island is built in with a veggie drawer and knife holder.
  • Soaking Tub – I love baths. It’s relaxing and I always end up feeling soft and smelling good. Plus, it’s a great place to enjoy a paperback.
  • Walk-in Closet – I need a large closet. I want one with plenty of hanging space and one that has shelves for storage as well so I can get rid of the chest of drawers in our bedroom. Shelves make it so much easier to find things. I will also use lots of lights in my walk in closet so I can see everything.
  • Upstairs – I like the idea of having an upstairs. When we lived in the townhouse in Tallahassee I admit I got tired of going up and down the stairs, but that was mainly because the bathroom was upstairs. The houses that I tend to especially like are the ones with stair and a banister that can be seen in the main room. It just looks so grown up.
  • Fireplace – I know I live in Florida, but I love having a fire going just about any night of the year.  We had fireplaces in our apartments in Tuscaloosa and Tallahassee. I loved starting up a fire and reading in the living room. It was so relaxing. Plus having a mantle to decorate feels homey and grown up too.
  • Screened-In Porch – I love nights when you can enjoy the outdoors, but mosquitoes are pretty bad around these parts. That’s where the screen comes in. And preferably a porch swing.
  • Doggy Room – Steve and Wil would be so pumped to have their own space. Complete with a soft bed, built in water bowl that automatically refills, custom height food bowls, hangars for their collars, leashes and shelves for their other doggy paraphernalia.
  • Sewing/Craft room – a room with several tables for lots of projects to be going on at once. And room for Matt too so he can work on his own projects with me. This room also needs a good sound system so we can listen to music while we work.
  • Great backyard – We def. have kids planned at some point in our future so a good backyard with space for a play set is def. a must. We’d love to build a treehouse. Plus we both like being outdoors so we’ll need a space for our chairs and firepit. Matt will also need a good corner for gardening.
  • Great Neighborhood – We’d love to live in a place where we can be close to friends and fun stuff like restaurants and parks. Double bonus if we could actually walk to them. We have a park in walking distance right now and we use it all the time for jogging and dog-walking.
  • Trees – I like shade in my yard and on my street.
  • No Carpets – When you have pets you get tired of constantly vacuuming. Sweeping is much easier. And spills are MUCH easier to clean.
  • Mini fridge for beverages – our drinks take up way too much space in the fridge. Also, I like having bottled water and canned drinks on hand and already cool.
  • Storage – I’m a collector (nice way of saying pack-rat) so I definitely want space to store my Christmas decorations, Fall decorations and other décor items. Just because I’m not using them right this second does not mean I have to get rid of them. I like changing things out now and then and it’s fun to go “shopping” through the boxes in our storage room. Plus we have tons camping stuff to be stored as well.
  • Gas stove – I cooked on a gas stove when I babysat for a family in college. I really understand the phrase “now you’re cookin’ with gas!” – It’s true. The heat is even and strong.
  • Driveway space for multiple cars – my dream home will have plenty of room for parking
I don’t expect to find ALL of these qualities in a house. Especially one in our price range. J But it’s nice to dream. Someday we hope to be able to build a house and when we do, I will make sure this entire list is considered. It’s a good thing I have it all here online for posterity.

Thursday, March 15, 2012

Spring Break (I wish)

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Remember when "Spring Break" meant vacation?

Now it means I'm excited because there are more parking spaces on campus for me when I come to work.

(Momma, I can hear you laughing at this statement all the way down here in FL...)

Everybody knows
It sucks to grow up
And everybody does
It's so weird to be back here.
Let me tell you what
The years go on and
We're still fighting it, we're still fighting it
-Ben Folds


Friday, March 9, 2012

Afterwhile Crocodile!

Plans for the weekend include:

1. House cleaning
2. Pedicure
3. Possible manicure??
4. California Grille
5. Dog boarding
6. Night in hotel
7. Homemade Pizza
8. Pat O'Brien's
9. Kindle reading
10. Library
11. EPCOT
12. Tea, milk and biscuits (the English kind)
13. Time with Matt
14. Outlet shopping
15. Leave work early

Matt and I have been looking forward to getting out of town to relax and continue to celebrate my birthday. We've has some stressful times since our last vacation in late December/early January. It will be nice to relax, shop and just pretend that it's more than a 1 night getaway.

Happy weekend to all of you!!

Below: Scenes from EPCOT





Friday, March 2, 2012

Books....

My favorite books?

In no particular order:

1. The Giver by Lois Lowry - I think I had to read this for school or I found it on those Scholastic book orders the teachers would pass out in Middle school. The book is set in the future, almost like Logan's Run, where everyone has a designated job. There are jobs like doctors, nurses and teachers, but the names are different. Your job is assigned to you when you are around 12 and the job of the "Giver" is very rare and special. You have to read the book to find out why. The story is about the main character, Jonas, a 12-year-old boy learning his job/fate and what that means.

2. A Confederacy of Dunces by John Kennedy Toole - This book is HILARIOUS. It's set in New Orleans and Ignatius, the main character, is just hilarious to me. He's pretty rude, obnoxious, gross and all around an unpleasant fellow. The funny part is that Ignatius has NO idea he is any of those things. This book intertwines several stories of other characters he interacts with. I can't help but chuckle when I read Ignatius inner monologues and actions. The writing is amazing.

3. Harry Potter and the Sorcerer's Stone by J. K. Rowling - I love all the Harry Potter books, but I have a soft spot for the first three. They were so innocent and easy. I picked the first book because that is where you are introduced to the magical world of Harry Potter for the first time. In fact it's the first time HARRY is introduced to this world. J.K. Rowling describes every detail. I remember being so happy when I saw the first movie because everything from Diagon Alley to Hogwarts was so close to how I imagined it would look when I read the book. Give this book a chance if you haven't already and see what all the fuss is about.

Speaking of fuss....
4. Hunger Games by Suzanne Collins - I borrowed this book from a friend. At first I disliked it. I didn't like the teenage drama. But when I thought I didn't like it and put it down....well I couldn't stop thinking about the story and wondering what would happen next. So I picked it back up. Finished it in one night and now I can't wait for the movie. It's set in the future as well and is a great story of determination and bravery. It can really be enjoyed on many levels which explains it's popularity in adults and children.

5. She's Come Undone by Wally Lamb - I don't know why, but this is one of those books I can pick up anytime, open up to any page and just start reading. I love the way Wally Lamb writes. He describes events and settings in great detail. His characters are very deep and nuanced and I discover small things every time I read a passage that I didn't notice before. He's also written The Hour I First Believed and I Know This Much Is True. Both are also great books. The subject matter is rough and I don't condone any of the character's actions, but they are all great stories.

6. Little Women by Louisa May Alcott - I could also throw in Little Men and Jo's Boys to this list as well, but I'll include them all here. I love reading about how the ladies in the March family handle the good times and the bad. I think there's a little of Meg, Jo, Beth and Amy in all of us. Love the way Louisa May Alcott describes children, how they interact and why they do what they do. She had such insight into their minds. It makes you love kids and makes me in particular want a house full of boys (after I read Little Men).

7. Any Nancy Drew mystery - I love a good Nancy Drew mystery. I love how Nancy is ALWAYS prepared (i.e. suitcase of extra clothes in the back of her stylish convertible, extra flashlight with extra batteries in the glove compartment, raincoat and galoshes in her back seat if she needs to do some sleuthing in the rain...always prepared). I love trying to figure out the motive and criminal before the end of the book. I love how polite all the folks are in these books (except for the bad guys of course). I'm trying to collect as many of these as I can (hint - birthday and Christmas presents, folks!)

8. Bridget Jones' Diary by Helen Fielding - Another book I can pick up and read anytime. Bridget is hilarious. I think any girl can relate to her. She worries over her weight, smoking habits, relationships, parents and job. The diary is her record of a complete year in her life. Very funny, set in England. If you enjoyed the movie you will LOVE the book.

9. The Glass Castle by Jeanette Walls - This is a true story about an amazing family. I actually read Half-Broke Horses (Jeanette Walls' biography about her great grandmother) before I read The Glass Castle. It's hard to believe this story is true, but I know it is. Jeanette and her siblings overcome amazing obstacles and live an extraordinary life with her unusual parents. When I read the sentence I just wrote I realize it sounds like they're some sort of sparkly magical/Richie Rich sort of family and it's actually quite the opposite.

10. New York by Edward Rutherford - I actually listed to this book on CD instead of sitting down and reading it. It's a huge book and details the history of the city of New York from the time it was called Manahatah by it's native inhabitants all the way to the destruction of the Twin Towers in 2001. It has so much history and I loved learning so much about my favorite city. The story follows several families and their lives in NYC. I like historical novels because I like understanding about what real life was like during these events you read about in your history books. This book does a great job of just that. Definitely worth the time to read or listen to.

Ok, that's 10. I could go on and on, but I think I've hit the highlights here. Give me your recommendations below. I love to read and volunteer at the library once a week. The best part of volunteering is leaving with the stack of books I found.

Happy Reading!!

Tuesday, February 28, 2012

Happy Birthday Gray!!

Happy Birthday to Gray! 
2 years old....I can't believe it.


You are incredibly smart, clever, funny and sweet.


You love to laugh. You love cars, trains, pianos, balls and Pepe.
You love to watch Sprout, Mickey Mouse Club and the Little Einsteins.


You're already a great counter (perhaps you have a future in accounting like your uncles?)
You love to take things apart and you study how things work (perhaps you have a future in engineering like your dad?)
 You LOVE the water. 
You have loved baths since you were a baby and you LOVED the ocean and the pool in Mexico. 

So far, you don't like sand.
You are very neat. You like your hands to be clean.


You are all boy and a pleasure to be around.
You say "Thank you" to everything. You are very polite.


You love your family and you have NO idea how fiercely we love you.



Thanks for making me Aunt Ashey.

Saturday, February 25, 2012

Happy Weekend!

In the immortal words of Rhianna: CHEERS TO THE FREAKIN' WEEKEND!!!



Wil says, "You go on, I'm gonna sleep in."

Matt's still in bed. It's 10:30. Me and the dogs are about to wake him up. Perhaps he'll take me to Hobby Lobby? Stay tuned!

Thursday, February 23, 2012

July 2011

I looked through my photos and discovered nothing interesting happened in June 2011. Or at least if it did, I didn't take a photo of it. So I figured I would skip ahead to July 2011. A lot happened this month. Starting with my parents coming down to stay with us for a long visit. We made an epic weekend out of the 4th of July weekend. 

We went to EPCOT.


We ate dinner in Mexico.


We tried on hats in Morocco.


And in Norway.


We went to Weeki Watchee to see the mermaids.


They were very impressive.


But not as impressive as the one we found outside.

Later in July Matt surprised me with a trip home to Alabama to be a part of my Grandma's birthday party. We grilled out and had a wonderful time.


Grandma and her cake.


The Burns/Willingham/Riner/Sockwell/Crockett Family 
(minus Matt and Robert )


We played Frizbee.


The grankids.
(minus Matt)


The goofiness is obviously a family trait.


As evidenced here.


Petunia. These are blooming here in Tampa right now! Crazy.

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